2 months post-op #2

It's been awhile since I've been here. And this whole time, I've thought about my asymmetry and hope that there is something that can be done to even things out. I've focused a lot inward for the past months and am  hoping to be able to soon put these "girls" to rest, and my mind.

Welding
I did get some welding done over Thanksgiving. It turned out much different than I had in my mind, but how can you help but be influenced by an engineer! Stability rules. We brought the rock home from a rock quarry trip and I have been visualizing what I would do with it for this whole time. Now we just need to find the best spot for it. Fortunately, it can be moved about at will - I can even lift it. I may add some more design to it without needing to weld it. Need to get more metal rod and use the bender that we made while in the welding mode. Some day, I'll have my own welder, but feel like I need more training to operate safely before I do. It was almost like starting all over. It did take my mind off the boobs - I couldn't think about anything but using the equipment safely and creating an object. Good stuff.

Jewelry
I finished up a bracelet that I thought was pretty cool. Has 150-160 beads on it. It's a stretchy charm bracelet with beads wired through the charm "loops".  I now have only one project that I have started that I need to finish.

What else?

Not much. Lots of Solitaire which is equivalent to numbness and wasted time. Guess I feel a little like I am in limbo until I either have to give up or try one more time for better results. I don't have much motivation to get things done. I do totally enjoy focusing on projects that require my attention and leave little room to think about boobs. Welding and jewelry do that for me.

I did buy 2 new bras - sweater bras. Kind of like heavy duty padded bras. Even with that, things aren't balanced. Add a little insert, and it is either too big or still not quite right. Like I said last time - can't imagine wearing them while riding motorcycle. I strive for one garment (with it's own support). Watch me step off the bike, take my jacket off, and omg, sweater bra!!! Or let's just say I don't care that I am uneven and have chosen a sports top with it's own light support. I proudly step off my bike, slip out of that jacket, and  omg, I think I have been spotted. I think I have just been demoted from Biker Chick to Biker Hag. I'm gonna go get me some ugly tats and have a couple of front teeth pulled. Welllll, it may not be that bad.

Went to see my General Surgeon this past week. He was interested in the results, probably because that's his job, but also because he hadn't done many nipple sparing procedures. So he was analyzing the results and asking me questions. Rated it on a scale of 1-10 for breast reconstruction as a 9. That's not too bad. I did feel better (for a little bit) after seeing him. He was please with the nipple sparing results. He explained why I have the area above my right breast that is sort of caved in. Breast tissues goes way up the chest, so they removed tissue from that area as well. Therefore an indented area that is causing much of my concern about asymmetry. Nice to know that. I had begun to understand what the options for fixing that might be from my new job and reading operative reports. We'll see if any of those work for me. 

We talked about future mammograms on the right. He initially thought that I didn't need to do that, but Dr. C thought I should continue. So I brought it up with Dr. I. He thought about why he initially said that. Most women who have a mastectomy have all of their breast tissue removed, so there is nothing to check with the mammogram. In my case they did leave some tissue. He is thinking that probably I should return at least for a baseline about a year after my surgery, then we will have it for any future reference we may need if we note changes. Makes sense. I really appreciated my visit with Dr. I. I thought surgeons cut and run - not these two. Seems like Dr. I might be a part of my life for awhile. I return to see him again in 6 mos, unless I have another surgery. Then I should just push the visit back a bit.

Next

I'll see Dr. C towards the end of January. I await that visit both with trepidation and eagerness. I am hopeful, I think, that there is more we can do. So....

Don't forget, this year (2012) can be about preventive health care measures. Most of us who have insurance coverage have that care provided to us without cost due to the Federal Health Care Reform measures, however we may feel about them. Take advantage of it. Get those mammograms, pelvic exams, prostate exams, colonoscopies, or whatever you have been putting off. Do it for me, you, your family and your friends.

Until a little later.

2+ weeks post-op #2

Well, I had my followup appointment yesterday. I was ready, I thought, to tell Dr. C what I felt in relationship to outcomes in such a convincing way that I would get what I wanted - some more work to fix the asymmetry. After experiencing asymmetry of some sort for a few months, I had hoped for trouble free symmetry. I made my observations - I like the left breast, with the exception of the nipple being a little low. I wasn't as happy with the right. While pre-op we thought that 400 cc was too big, it was an overfilled 250cc expander which ended up looking kind of like a ball. The inframmary crease was a little high. Plan for surgery was too move that down, open up towards the middle a bit to make the breasts each more equally aligned vertically. During surgery you can only work on one breast at a time. So though you have markings, etc. you have to "imagine" what it will look like in relationship to the other breast. Must be a challenge. So the right one with the expander was done first. Moved down, opened more to the middle, inserted a smaller implant. Then the left one was done - a crescent incision at the top half of the areola, removal of some of the skin to help lift the nipple, insertion of the implant through that. As I told Dr. C, the right breast is smaller, not as much fullness at the top, and not as much fullness to the right of the nipple as the left. Which means that I can tell a difference when I put various tops on, bras, etc. I had really hoped to lead him towards a decision to redo the right with a larger implant. Being the responsible surgeon that he is, he suggests that we wait to see how the breasts settle over time. He wants me to be happy with the results but at some point he will need to stop tweaking it. "If you can have patience...." Meanwhile, he can write me a prescription for a special bra. Have any of you heard of a sweater bra? He thinks it would cover the inadequacies. Anyway, I think I'll hold off on that bra. I already have 3 mastectomy bras, but they aren't sweater bras that I know of! Ehhhh.

Why are bras the solution to asymmetry? Perhaps next time I can describe for him what it is like to wear a heavy bra when I am riding motorcycle with a full jacket on on a really hot day. I try to wear the least amount I can under it and not be considered indecent. If I wear a decorative sports bra or sports top with its own shelf bra in it, I can be comfortable, it absorbs the trickling sweat, and I can take my jacket off in public. Imagine this, I carry one "special bra" no, wear it. We camp in a primitive campsite, I hand wash the bra in the water drained out of the cooler, in the morning before we take off. I fasten the bra to the bag on the back of my bike so that it gets dried out. Meanwhile I either wear a backup or no bra. Kinda funny, huh?

How about hiking in 90-100 degree weather in a canyon with a day pack on and wearing a structured bra under a top that doesn't show the bra straps? So, I'm not really ready to call it quits. But I can wait, and hopefully by the time summer tops come out again I can actually feel confident wearing one and not look noticeably lopsided. I understand that it is hard to get them the same or near same in one surgery. Nonetheless, I am not ready to settle for a special bra for years to come as the solution if we can correct it another way. I believe the third time (that would be the next time) is the charm. So, I hope that he will consider that when I see him next year. Patience.

Dr. C had wanted to see pictures of my feather jewelry, so I took some in. His daughter has used his feathers and equipment to make jewelry for herself and friends. I have an idea for another set I'd like to do out of the golden pheasant. I still have lots of feathers. I'll probably end up giving away the majority of the feathers as I'm not sure that I will make that much feather jewelry. One of the girls at work is interested in something, so I'll see what she likes.


I forgot - posted later today.....
Taping the boobs. Will be applying tape to the incision lines for about 4 weeks. Supposedly helps to smooth out the scar, etc. Should be able to have on about 4 days and off for a day, then retape. Also, still not lifting much or stretching. I can drive. Today on my walk I stopped at the produce stand and had to make a decision - do I want to buy a stalk of brussel sprouts or fresh apple cider? hmmm. Let me weigh that! I can carry a gallon of something. I can't carry both. I bought the cider. I can go buy on my next walk and get the stalk of brussel sprouts. I read a recipe for roasted sprouts today that I'd like to try.


So... back to work on Monday. I'll have to have someone drop me off as I have my work laptop and I'm still not supposed to lift over 8-10 lbs. I'll get retrained if I need it, or hopefully, I will not have forgotten much and can almost pick up from where I left off.

Cooking was listed on my post-op instructions as something I couldn't do until after week 3. I wondered why and the only reason Dr. C could come up with was the lifting of heavy pots. Well, I came up with another. If you are short like me, you have to reach for everything. I did cook a stew one day, but it took longer than usual as I had to carry a small lightweight stool around so that I could get things out of the cabinet.

When I am 4 weeks post-op I can do anything. We plan to be at friends for Tday weekend. The Mr. there has welding equipment and is excited that I'd like to do some welding. Just the right timing in relationship to surgery and lifted restrictions. I'm trying to think of what I might like to make. I need to make a hanger for necklaces at some point - should be working on a design. I bought an inexpensive welding hood so I am set with the other small tools and supplies that I need from prior welding classes. Should be fun. This time I'll try reading glasses and see if I can see where to place the weld better! Just might work.

Activities
I'm getting my walks in. I missed two days due to either weather or being out and about. A week ago we went with friends to Sauvie Island to see Sandhill cranes. We did see maybe 5 - not as many as I hoped. Anyway, it was fun to get out with them. Sunday I had Mr. drop me off at Oaks Bottom. I walked the trail, took some photos. I have never seen so many Blue Herons in one location. A huge mural has been painted on the back side of the mausoleum that faces the Bottom. After walking that I walked from there through West Moreland back to Woodstock. Great day. To see more about the mural, check out this link to OPB.

Mural

Great Blue Herons

And of course, more jewelry. Here are a few pictures. I have one project I have been procrastinating on as it isn't coming out quite like I wanted. Oh well.

Silver-covered wire with carnelian stones

Silver-plated chain with clusters of gem stone beads

Silver chain with purple glass beads and silver-coated wire

Dangle earrings with silver-coated wire with gold-toned beads

What is to come?
I will follow up with my general surgeon in the next month sometime. Again with Dr. C late January. I don't anticipate lots of activity here on this blog, however, I will post on occasion. I have a couple questions - one being how will I do self-breast checks and when should I start those. I haven't had a chance to share some of my insights with them about information sharing, etc. I think I still want to do that. I'd also like to ask them if they would like to refer people to me if they have questions about breast reconstruction. We'll see.

Support and resources
Meanwhile, I want to be available to anyone who might have questions about breast reconstruction and resources. I'll post a piece that I started to put together awhile back when it is finished for anyone who might want a resource, or want to share one with someone else. You can email me from this blog if you have any questions (I think), or post a brief comment and I will get an email.

1 week ago today ...

This time last week, we were waiting in the pre-op room for the preliminary stuff to be done. Seems like a long time ago.

I did ask the Dr. last week about whether the guys in the OR got to place votes on symmetry during surgery - all of the people in the room were male except for about 30 min. a female was filling in for one of the guys. He said "Guys are interested in symmetry too.." Doesn't bother me a bit if they did give input. I like the idea of more than one person helping out with that. This kind of surgery is an art and a science. It's not easy to get things perfect.

Anyway, I'm really excited about the jewelry that I have finished. I did some design and assembling, then photographing using an old male fitting form. This old guy really liked the attention! I really kind of like him for the display and photographing of pieces. It also really helped in seeing how things lay as I work.

Jewelry coming up

The first set is with Lady Amherst feathers dyed blue. I purchased a head and plucked feathers from that, used tippets and head feathers and a goose biot. Here's a link to a real whole bird. http://ak-aviary.tripod.com/id1.html

This one is made from the head of a golden pheasant dyed (I thought) yellow/orange tones. Here's a link to a whole bunch of pictures. I don't know which type this one is.

Blue Peacock feathers were used for this pendant. In addition, I added black and green quills and of course beads. The quills are the thin hairy strands. I think we all know what peacocks look like, but just in case, here's a link.

This one has a number of different feathers in it and are left in their natural color. Lady Amherst Tippets (white with black stripe), Guinea feathers (polka dot), and barred wood duck (black with white stripe) with quills and biot. I'll see if I can find a couple more pictures of the birds you haven't seen yet. Guinea Fowl. Barred Wood Duck.

You really must see the heads I was working with.

Lady Amherst

Golden Pheasant

I still have more feathers and will need to decide what to do with them... Some were hard to buy in small quantities. I haven't made any for myself yet, not sure if I will. If I can think of something to wear it with, maybe I will do something just for the fun of it. Thoughts?

On to non-feathered ideas soon. First a hot, steamy shower. Maybe my walk.

Post Op Day 6

Thanks to all of you for your healing thoughts and well wishes. I believe they play a huge role in my recovery.

What's new?

The day before I went to my appointment I saw a piece on day-time television about a woman who had a uniboob after she had her implants redone. I had read about this before (on the internet) but had forgotten about it. OMG - what if I end up with one too? I had to peek - boobs are kind of squeezed together so kind of hard to tell. We'll just have to wait and see.

On 10/28 I got my fancy halter top removed. That felt good. No uniboob, just a little cleavage. Thank goodness for that! I am not experiencing nearly as much itching without that fashion item on. Now I am wearing a bra 24/7 except when I shower.

Latest halter design fashion

A friend helped me get to my appointment since Mr. had to stay home with the furnace installer. We had lunch and a walk as well. That was nice.

Dr. was pleased with results, though left ended up a little bigger than right and the nipple a little lower. He thinks he can fix that with an office procedure, or at least improve it. I hope so. My next follow-up isn't until 11/9, so I'll have to wait until then to see how soon we can work that in. Sounds like his schedule is pretty full into Feb. I can have the size discrepancies fixed at the time that my parts require replacement. He thinks that the nipple-sparing procedure gave a much better result in appearance than the standard mastectomy and rebuilding the nipple. There would have been more scarring with that procedure.

My pain is more discomfort or irritation in the left, almost nothing in the right since there is little sensation there. I haven't taken pain meds for a couple of days. I am limited to how far I can reach/stretch my arms and how much I can lift. I am taking advantage of my loyal caregiver.

The furnace installation was completed on Friday. It's nice to have heat. Really good, in fact. The furnace is great - I never hear it running. I'll look forward to seeing the first heating bill, maybe. But, considering annual repairs, service contract, heating oil and tank insurance, we should at least break even on monthly expenses. What would even be better would be that this thing would pay for itself over time in energy efficiency. One can hope.

I have played way too much solitaire. I have spent a couple of days working on jewelry now that I am allowed out of my room (furnace repair guys are gone). I'm working with feathers. Not sure how much of that I will do. I'll post some photos of those after I complete this next piece. It's taking alot more time and skill - that I don't know that I have. I have a few other pieces planned, 1 with feathers and others without feathers. Not sure I'll get them all done during my time off.

We have some fun activities planned even though I can't drive. We plan to meet Dad/aunt for breakfast at a restaurant in Willamina - Coyote Joe's - they have the best sausage ever. Sandhill Cranes migrate through Sauvie's Island and some stay all winter. We want to go out one afternoon with friends to see what we can see. Of course, I want to get out for some walks - yesterday was the first time I didn't take one. It's the rain, you know! Gotta get past that.

Next week after Tuesday I will be able to drive, so I'll go out and get some things done that I can't do for now.

Post Op Day 1

Surgery went well. Had an interesting conversation about health care reform and insurance coverage with my pre-op nurse. Kind of interfered with my zen moments, but she was distressed about the changes in her health plan for this coming year. And of course, the new knowledge that I am gaining in my position really adds to my ability to explain things.

The anesthesiologist came in to introduce himself, explain, and assure me that he would do a good job and take good care of me during surgery. Dr. C came in to draw his plans on my breasts. He told me what a good anesthesiologist I have, and learned that he is also a friend. I asked him how many voting members we'd have in the OR. He said Dr. D wouldn't be good at it, and we'd have to see who was present. He had told me that he asks people in the OR to give input on evenness when he sits me up. After Dr. C was in, Dr. D came back to sedate me. I got to see the OR. The anesthesiologist only sedated me lightly until after I was in the OR. Only male voting members, mhhmm. Wonder if he gave them the opportunity to vote. He did ask if a specific female nurse was in when he came into the OR but she wasn't. I'll have to wait until Friday to find out more details! I had my midafternoon nap that I was looking forward to. Woke up in the recovery area, then back to the pre-op/short stay area to finish up. We left the hospital by 6.

Thank goodness for my Marge Simpson hair do bag. I accepted the offer of a puke bag though I hadn't had any issues with nausea. I sort of felt the urge on the way home - I had been looking down at my cellphone, making some calls. After I decided to keep my eyes up or closed I felt better. So glad I didn't need to use the hat. I'll show you a picture. I'm not sure that I look even as good as Marge.

Marge's Hair Bag

I have the loveliest breast supporter on. It provides good coverage, modesty, and potential for new fashion design. Gauze halter type dressing under a huge ace like wrap with velcro that goes all around my chest. I'll wear that until I see Dr. C on Friday. No showers until then. I can only hope that we have hot water so I can soak in the shallows of the tub. I'll have to figure out how to get my hair washed over the next couple of days.

I tolerated my soup and grilled cheese sandwich well. Almost fell asleep on it. I thought I'd sleep all night really well because of my extreme sleepiness. Guess that doesn't work - I woke up periodically, took pain meds when time so that I wouldn't find myself in extreme discomfort. Drank water. Scratchy throat - lozenges. Cat with me for quite awhile. I'm glad she decided to go to her own bed after awhile. I'm trying to sleep with my torso slightly elevated and on my back. I found myself raising my right arm above my head in my sleep. I often do that when sleeping. That's a bad. I haven't had terrible pain yet.

Other exciting news on the home front - the furnace installers are getting started today. We have been out of heat since March. We are switching to gas from oil. So, we will likely to have gas off during the day time. Just in time for heating - it's been 58 when I get up in the morning. That's actually a good sleeping temp, but not a good waking temp. My plan is to buy the Mr.  a tank top and bikini swim pants so he can still be comfortable with a temp of, oh, I'm thinking 64 might work.

Plans for today: walk at least around the block at least once (with a cap on to cover the holes in my head); maybe I'll start scanning slides to digital format for dad - don't need as fine of dexterity as I would with jewelry. Rest, rehydrate, take drugs, and eat. Sounds good doesn't it.

Today is the Big Day

Wow, it's here - surgery day. Seemed like today would never come. I have even been excited to go to surgery and with a little trepidation about the outcome. I think that my breasts will look as good as a human can make them look given the circumstances, but I don't know what that will be.

I worked at home on Friday and Monday, so I decided I was going to take this opportunity to go braless in spite of the uneven situation going on. Sort of a memorial to what is, and what I will be leaving behind. Tried to protect others from the discrepancy as much as possible with baggy clothes. I'll have to wear a bra 24/7 for two weeks, so.....

So I got up before the birds, pretty much my normal time to get up for work, at 4:15. I needed to get a little in to eat, some coffee and clear liquids. I could have gone back to bed, but I chose to do some washing of woodwork, clean the bathroom, dust the main rooms, listen to Enya (great pre-op music), and get my table set up for making jewelry. I'm really looking forward to that. With the right music on, it will help me kind of melt into that relaxed calm mental state. I think I need to change the current selection real soon or that won't happen! After all that work, I worked up a thirst. Poor me.

Soon I'll go out for a short walk - still a little chilly out. Guess I need to get used to it! Come back in for a nice hot soak, slip into my easy to get into clothes and head out the door. I think I'm his first surgery case of the day as he normally has office hours Tues. AM, so unless something ties him up there, we should get a timely start. I think surgery may be about 2 hrs. Could it be possible that I will be home in time for a lovely hot cooked supper?

Thanks for all of your healing thoughts and well wishes. I know that with those and the surgeon's skills, I am in good hands and have an excellent chance of optimal outcomes and recovery. I'll post later this week - but have to have some jewelry or something to show!

18 weeks + a few days; 6 to go

It's been a little bit since I have been here. I'm trying to get ready mentally, physically, organizationally for my surgery next Tuesday. I think the end may be in sight!

I don't have much to share. I've been thinking back on events of the past few months, emotions, thoughts, etc. I am now thinking, "What was the big deal anyway?" Must not have been thinking very rationally even though I thought that I was. Kind of interesting to "observe" my own actions, thoughts, etc. But I think it's a good thing to keep in mind as I interact with others who are going thru things, whatever they are. I think I will be more compassionate and empathetic. I even found real hospital discharge instructions the other day. If you think back a long time ago, I had been given instructions, but they were the wrong ones. I told the nurse that when she asked if I had them. She then tore the incision care instruction off of that packet, put them in my folder, and must have gone out to get the appropriate ones. Probably handed them to Scott and they went in a bag or pocket or something and I didn't remember that she had given them to us. I guess first impressions are pretty darned important. I know that really stuck with me. I still would like to be available to others to help them with good resources and information - that would have saved me lots of time and energy in research - after all the decisions had already been made.

My pre-op appt. was last week. Figured out which "parts" to order. Learned I'd probably need replacement parts before I droop, even on the left side. I can view that both in a positive or negative light. It means another surgery some day. It means I'll never? have to worry about droopiness again. I think that we are on the same page regarding my goals for my appearance after surgery is done. I am confident that the dr. will do the best he can to get things to look symmetrical.

For the last couple of weeks I've been wearing a nylon knee high filled with rice in the size of the maybe implant tied off on both ends on the left. It makes things look pretty even. Figured I might as well try out my new size.

I'm learning many new things in my new job. I kind of feeling like my clarity is diminishing the closer I get to my surgery. There are many details and we use many references to complete one review. I have a great trainer - very patient, excellent at following process and helping me to use my tools.

This past weekend we toured several studios participating in the Portland Open Studios event. I didn't get to see all the specific places I was interested in, but we focused more on the east side of town and did see some things that we really enjoyed. The Mr. is desiring that I find a new tour partner for next year!

http://www.portlandopenstudios.com/news/a-preview-of-artists-from-portland-open-studios-2011/

Saw the top and bottom studios/artists.
http://www.portlandtribune.com/features/story.php?story_id=131724181518477700

We haven't had a working furnace since March. The dates for installation are set - 10/26 & 27. Can you just imagine what it will be like to have a heat source bigger than a space heater? I'm very excited for it to be in place.

My big day - 10/25 1pm. I'm very eager to have it behind me. I've been trying to get to my "quiet place" but I'm having a hard time finding it or getting there. I don't know what I did the last time that worked so well for me. Mhmmm. Let me know if you remember.

 I'll be off for 2+ weeks, but I have so many quiet projects to do I may not actually have enough time to get them all finished. We are going to set a work table up in the living room for me to do my work at - anything from jewelry to scanning slides. Hopefully I won't need to do much napping. I anticipate that I will have more pain this time as the left breast will have sensation, while the right did not after my last surgery and still probably won't have much after this one. I will definitely get my prescription filled. First 2 weeks - no lifting, stretching, or driving. 3rd week, no stretching. Anything goes after 4 weeks. Guess I should wait until the 5th week to do my fall pruning if I don't get it done this weekend. Do you have any thoughts on that? I understand that if I stretch or do forbidden activities that I may end up bleeding and have to go back into surgery. Well, that's not a place I want to go, so it will be really easy for me to be good.

No photos, jokes or creative postings today. I'm too rational and logical to come up with anything. It's not nearly as much fun for me, but I imagine I'm more tolerable to have/be around. Thanks to all of you who have listened to and read my ramblings. I have appreciated your support ever so much. Let me change that - I do appreciate your support ever so much.

Well... you will be hearing from me next week. Take care.

Week 15 and 4 weeks + 2 days to go

I am counting down. Not days yet. When we hit Oct. 1 I'll start counting days. Right now it's still weeks.

I started my new job this week. I feel officially incompetent, however, I don't have the threat of imminent dismissal and dissatisfaction hanging over my head. That's good. Our layoffs tend to be annually toward the end of Oct. into Nov. I don't think I'll have the same concerns this year that I tend to have since 2002 when I got exterminated! Lots to learn though. Whole bunch. My aunt tells the story of playing hide and seek with us as kids (she was maybe 7-9 years older than my oldest bro) and my brother just older than I would count, 1, 2, 3 hoe bunch. I love that story and count that way often. Hoe bunch.

Saw Dr. C this week. I had my grid of pros/cons, procedures, goals and all that stuff. I was thinking about him and how he seems to work. I thought, no, I'm not going to pull this out. I'm going to just talk about symmetry, proportion, and that what I look like unclothed is important. I won't get into procedures, we'll just talk. Seems to work well for him.  Had a good visit. Didn't really talk much about procedures. I'll ask him what he did after surgery. This is kind of difficult for me. I want to know who, what, when, where, how. But I also want what I want. I think I will be more likely to get it if I don't make him explain everything in advance. He goes a bit by feel. I can kind of understand that. I often need to do things myself  because I need to feel it. grrr.

We are at the beach this weekend. I've had opportunities to make jewelry. I need more storage space at home to keep the jewels. If you want something, let me know, I'll consider making it for you. I especially like wire and stone. I'll show pictures in a bit. A couple pieces are for friends and some are for me. Here goes....

My photo theme this weekend at the beach was seaweed. Have you ever noticed how many different shapes and colors there are? Amazing.

Can you just imagine working Monday with the ocean sounds crashing in the near background? I can, and I don't have to imagine it. I will hear it. I'll be on a conference call for about 3 hours. I think the folks on the other end of the line will hear it too. I'll have to try to muffle the sound.

I wore a very lightweight tank top this AM w/o bra. I/yi. It seems sans structured bra is not a good idea. But I think it's a matter of deprogramming or desensitization.  Need to change that cuz omg, not a good thing. Funny that nipple conservation ends up being painful! Only on part of it though, not all.

Hang in there. We only have a few weeks to go. I'll take you into recovery a bit, but won't bore you forever. Thanks for hanging out.

Week 14 and 5 weeks + 2 days

Nothing much going on. As you can see I am counting down. I'll start doing it by day soon!

I successfully prepped for my colonoscopy. Honestly, for those of you who may be putting it off, it's not that bad. I got a little tired of sweet so I drank broth and herbal tea towards the end. Took a nice little nap during the procedure which was good after being up several times during the night. Dr. B pronounced my colon healthy and let me know I didn't need to come back for 10 years. Yoohoo!

I discovered the other day if I put my right upper arm across my chest on top of my breast, I have a good shelf to rest my arm on, then I can put my chin in my hand. I think I could take a nap like that. It's firm enough that it just stays there - doesn't get squished. I had Mr. do a photo, but the effect didn't show. So... no pictures to post this week.

Tomorrow I start my new job. I'll still do 1-2 hrs a day on my old job to get things wrapped up. But I'll be in training for awhile. It will be strange to be learning new things instead of teaching new things. I'm looking forward to that.

Wednesday is my followup with my surgeon. We'll go over  priorities, goals, or whatever you want to call them. If  he's ready, we'll talk about procedures. I'll have my pre-op visit on 10/11, so we'll finalize things then.

There are times when it just feels better not to have a top on. It's getting a little chilly for that. Not sure what I'll do when winter sets in - turn the heat up. If the furnace is installed that might be an option! I'm sitting here tonight with a shawl around my neck and over the left side. I'm warm enough that way, and more comfortable. Sometimes I think it's wearing a bra that makes me uncomfortable, and others it seems like it's not wearing a bra and wearing a top that makes me uncomfortable. What to do?

Small family reunion today - aunt and uncle in from Maryland. Saw another OR aunt and uncle and two cousins hadn't see in awhile. That was nice.

Hoping to get a few more summer days before Fall sets in. We'll see...

Week 13 with 6 weeks + 2 days to go

Well, let's see.... We started out on a motorcycle trip for an extended Labor Day weekend and went as far as Sun River. Mr's. bike was having some loss of power issues. We felt that it might be a bit risky to continue given that I really needed to be back to work on the 6th as I am trying to finish up projects so I am ready to transition to my new position on 9/19. We spent the night in Bend and stayed near the McMenamin's St. Francis - no rooms available, but we were able to stay close enough to walk there for dinner and have some Terminator. We headed home on Thursday morning. As fortune or circumstance would have it, Mr. had no problems all the way home. We got home middle of the afternoon and prepared for a truck camping trip. We left for the east side of the mountains - east of Prineville and Post - to camp. It was nice to get away but for some reason I had major allergic response to the grasses, etc. Even Zyrtec didn't seem to help much. I'm still working on getting completely over it though am much better.

I'm counting down on a few fronts. 9/19 I start my new position. I have alot to learn. 10/25 is my 2nd surgery. If I am counting right that would be the 6 weeks + 2 days to go. By this time on the 25th, I should at the least be in recovery. Oh, and lest I forget, my first ever colonoscopy on 9/16! I went out and bought my prep stuff at Bi-mart and Safeway this afternoon. The clerk at Bi-Mart laughed and said "Oh guess what you get to do." We laughed. I even bought some extra things so Mr. will almost be ready for it when he schedules his. No food with seeds in it starting Tuesday. My advice to you is don't schedule your colonoscopy when there are so many fresh seeded things like tomatoes and cucumbers. 3 days with no seeds! Thursday clear liquids, I can have Ensure until 5pm. Need some protein source. Then the fun begins!

This past week I worked 10-11 hour days. Will probably do the same Mon - Thurs. again. Work days should get shorter soon!

Had a good time yesterday enjoying some art and friends. We went to Lake Oswego and ate lunch with friends at Lady Di's, a British tea place, then we did the sculpture walk. LO sponsors statues around town and each year the residents get to vote on one to purchase. Great company and great art. Nice treat. Here's a picture of one of my favorites. Check out some more at their website. http://www.lofa.org/

Glass & Steel

Nothing new on the breast front, though I did notice the other day that I do have almost normal sensation on the lower left quarter of my breast. Maybe more to come? I'll take what I can get. I am able to wear a bra the majority of the day, but it's always nice to get out of it in  the evening. They are pretty structured.

It's been warm, hot, though I am not going to complain. It took forever for summer to arrive. Tomatoes are finally ripening. We are hoping to get a new furnace installed before the cool sets in. Right now we have no heat source. So......

At any rate, I have nothing more to go on about, so I'll call it good for now.